Dear Santa, Bless the Selfless Ones

Over the next four Mondays before Christmas, I am writing some small letters to Santa. In each letter I will express my gratitude, and make my wishes known. Here is my second letter, a big one from the heart:

NOTE:  THIS LETTER WAS MEANT FOR DEC 10, BUT DELAYED DUE TO NO INTERNET FOR SEVERAL DAYS. THIS WEEK’S LETTER WILL APPEAR WED DEC 19.

P.S. no promotional links provided during these thank yous.

Bless You, Selfless Ones

Dear Santa,

I don’t want to confuse you. Last time I wrote about the mentors and asked you to bless them with good things for all the lessons and support they give so generously. This letter I’m asking you to recognize the selfless supporters. I know it sounds like I’m repeating myself, but I’m not.

The supporters are those who have lifted me up, held me aloft, without asking me to spend money or to repay them. These people gave of their time to market, promote, assist and in general, showcase me. They did not expect any payment, never asked for any, and never will. They are a rare breed of individual and I want to thank them. Some may also be, or have been, mentors, but for the most part they are a unique persons with unique gifts.

First, let me thank a man who seems to have faded out of my life. Ron Shaw. He was the first person to put me on the radio thanks to an introduction arranged by Robbie Cox. Ron Shaw and I shared a love of stories and poetry. And that first time on the radio put me into new hands, and helped me to meet other new people. In fact he put me on the radio twice. And it was free. Yup. Free. I want to send him special blessings for taking a chance on me.

Then I need to thank Ms Musu Bagura for taking me on the radio for Focus on Women’s Magazine with La Femme de Prose. I remember feeling so nervous. Suddenly I was going to be speaking to other women writers (the primary audience). Musu was wonderful and set me at ease. I worked with her twice but it left a deep appreciation in me.

Along the way I’ve been blessed with several more supporters who interviewed me on the radio or in person. Thanks goes to G.W. Pomichter, Sage IA and crew at Hangin’ With Web Show for putting me ON air. That was 15 minutes of “ohmygodwhatamidoing” and I was so grateful. 

Coming soon on the heels of Hanging With was Yvonne Mason and her show Off the Chain. Yvonne and I are old friends now despite only having met in person once. There was an instant connection. Yvonne has been a hard core supporter and has had me on air with her over six times. Free. Such amazing chances she takes on this woman. Santa, be especially good to her.

This led to my meeting Laurie Kehoe and her radio show Author’s Corner. Our connection is short so far but I want to know her better, after the generous hour she gave me on air. We share so many likes. It is a friendship I look forward to having and growing. She blessed me so much, so please return the favor, Santa.

The first person who ever did an article about me, an interview, was Anna Mittower. Anna is a writer, photographer and Cosplayer and soon after I met her she went overseas to teach English in Korea. It was years before I saw her again. She may not realize how much she helped me with that first article. Then came others – Linda Allbritten, Dave Michael Jackson, Jenna Brooks, Mary Deal, Robbie Cox, Kimberley O’Malley, Kim McDougall, Terri Wilson, Don Massenzio, PJ L’Rue, Ravannah Rayne – and each one allowed me to shine, showcased by them. This is a singular honor, to let someone else put a glow in your space. For free. Without expectation of compensation, reward or recompense. Bless them fully, Santa.

Santa, these supporters – these selfless, giving angels – are unique because they give without asking for anything in return. They give without charge. They give without leaving behind guilt or expectation. I adore them more than I can say for the support and love they gave to me. “Thank you,” isn’t enough of a gift, so I’m hoping you’ll look extra kindly on them this year.

You might be thinking, Santa, that I should be mentioning friends and family. I agree but that letter is yet to come. These people are the ones who are mostly faceless or invisible, who give without reward, who have supported, promoted and marketed and made a difference in my life. Profoundly. No words I say will ever be adequate, Santa, so please find a way to shower them with extra blessings filled with love. And those I whose names I have forgotten, please bless them because they matter even if I’m too old to remember them by name.

My author life began ten years ago. I have been overwhelmed with kindness and generosity of spirit and many gifts that raised me up and helped me to fly. I never want to lose sight of those who put me on the early path and keep giving to me, people who never asked for money, nor changed me for any time or aid. I hope you are able to show them how well I remember, how I will never forget, Santa. My blessings are many and they were free. Just like love.

Another letter next week Santa. We’re closing in on Christmas! Merry Christmas to you and yours.

I remain, Yours Between the Lines,

Sherry

Odds and Ends News

Good Monday morning, readers and writers everywhere!  I hope your Easter weekend/school break/vacation was supremely happy and restful. Ready to get back to work? I am. But first I wanted to break from the usual weekly articles and touch base on a few odds and ends.

NEWS:  I am delighted to announce that the eLit Book Awards were announced over the weekend. I am the proud SILVER Medalist for The Book of Now (TBoN)! Let’s have a group hug!AND On Apr 14 I started a FREE Giveaway of ebook copies of TBoN. TODAY is the last day to get your free Kindle copy of it. I will NOT be offering this book for free ever again.  Now is your chance! Last day is TODAY. RUN!
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Next, the Poetry Contest ended yesterday. Judging begins today and winners will be announced on APRIL 26. Stay tuned for the LIVE announcement (see below) and I wish all the entrants good luck!

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I’ll be on the radio! Join me on Yvonne Mason’s blogtalk radio program OFF THE CHAIN on FRIDAY, April 21, at 8pm. We always have a great time and we’re planning to discuss poetry. Call in and ask your questions. And share your thoughts with us! I look forward to our hour together. Click the link and listen live or check back later and listen to the archived program.

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NEW BOOK STATUS:  I’m finishing the final edits on the new book. I finally selected a title and all will be revealed soon. Get ready because I hope to have the book available by the end of MAY!

What is the new book? If you read my MIDNIGHT ASSASSIN – A Tale of Lust and Revenge, then you met Drahomira, my deliciously sexy vampire. She’s back and she’s setting up the reason for the new series called The Evening Bower. This prequel will introduce a variety of characters who will come together (some sooner, others later) in the new stories. Drahomira is my connector, my facilitator (just don’t tell her I said that), and she’s bringing trouble in her wake.

I’ll keep you posted with more information soon.

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New FACEBOOK LIVE EVENT on APRIL 26 at 9pm. The Poetry Contest Winner announced, news about the new book, info on the Space Coast Book Lovers Event, and a few special shout outs.  Mark your calendar!

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Finally, I know I don’t say it often enough but thank you to everyone who supports me with you friendship, your encouragement, you cheering when I do well, your uplifting inspiration when I do poorly, and for filling my life with smiles and laughter. You are all my inspiration and I treasure you.

Next Monday I will have some poetry and thoughts about poetry to end National Poetry Month.

Until then I remain,
Yours, Between the Lines,
Sherry

11 Reasons You Can Use to Avoid NaNoWriMo (but won't)

November is less than a week away! For over a million folks, that means the start of National Novel Writing Month (NaNoWriMo). If you are unfamiliar with what NaNoWriMo is then here is what it means in a nutshell: A month dedicated to the completion of 50K words, dedicated to a single novel/project. That’s it. One month of writing goals, chaos, frustration, joy, confusion, late nights, silliness, too much coffee (or soda), with the end result being a boatload of words which, hopefully, will lead to a successful novel in the future.

Now, if you are a regular author/novelist, the first question I get is “why.” The answer is easy for young writers, the unpublished, untrained, and inexperienced. The pupose of NaNo (for short) is to help you find your writing habit, to show you what dedication and commitment to your craft can do for you, how to write without stopping to edit or question yourself, how to trust that you have more words (and something to say) than you imagined. NaNo is commitment, dedicaiton, inspiration, comradierie, and proof. Proof that when you put your mind to it, you can actually finish something.

Finish. Notice I didn’t say “win.” Yes, NaNo says that if you succeed at getting 50K words in one month, then you “win” some prizes or get discounts to prizes. But that’s not really what they mean. The idea is to finish the month by writing every day.

And if you don’t get to 50K, that’s okay. The concept is learning to write every day, to never give up on yourself or your craft and to develop a strong writing habit.

The only losers to the program are the quitters.

But why bother with NaNo if you already write novels and are successful at it? Well, to be honest you probably would do it for the fun, for the companionship of others (we writers do get awfully solitary), and maybe for the challenge.

Of course, I’ve had several authors tell me, “I don’t need NaNo because I write all the time.” Okay, good for you.

Yet there are millions of people who do participate. Who want to believe. Who DO believe. And there are successful, published, best-selling authors who participate (as well as editors and agents).

So I have a list for those of you thinking about Nov 1, and the start of NaNo, or maybe just reading about it.

11 reasons you can use to Not to Participate, Give Up On or Quit NaNo (use as needed):

  1. You like to chat about writing a novel. You feel the excitement of it when you do, you’ve even tried writing about it in your journal or made some notes. You do it every year. You’re still talking about it. Stop talking about it. We know at this point you won’t do it. Just accept it and we’ll move on.
  2. You have children. They have things to do. They have schoolwork. You have to drive them. You need to supervise homework. You don’t have time for writing when you have to do math.
  3. Soccor, ballet, football, school programs, choir, band, karate, volunteer work, cheer squad, gymnastics. You are never home.
  4. If you don’t clean the house it won’t get done. Who has time when the toilets are calling. And laundry? Oh we won’t even talk about how you have to supervise the washer and dryer.
  5. You have a blog to keep up, facebook post, twitter to update, LinkedIn to add, Goodreads book reviews to give and sale (of your old books) to check on Amazon and Smashwords.
  6. You feel headachy and tired. Who can write when the body says it’s tired?
  7. Who wants to actually read what you write? No one cares about this stuff!
  8. And worse, what happens afterwards when no one likes it? Why did I bother?
  9. There will be other projects, other NaNo years.
  10. You have a real job. You can’t be expected to do both especially when one isn’t paying the bills.
  11. Your spouse/sig other/best friend isn’t involved and just can’t relate.

There. I hope those help you successfully rationalize yourself out of NaNoWriMo.

However, if you know that all of those are bunk, if you know that you must write and it doesn’t matter about what, if you know that you aren’t writing for others and you are writing for yourself, if you know that at the end of the day the day isn’t done until you do write, if you believe that words matter no matter how few, if you know that support will come from other writers despite those closest to you not “getting” you, then NaNo is exactly for you (no matter the word count).

Because you know that the writing must happen. Like breathing. Sick or well. Kids or job. The writing is important to you and must get done, will get done, because you make it important enough.

Because it’s a Nike (just do it) feeling.

If you know these things, then I’ll see you there (nanowrimo.org) on November 1. Because how could we not?

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Am being interviewed tonight!!  Tune in to the Ron Shaw Show at 8pm EDT to listen live! Or come back tomorrow (or later) to listen to the recording in the archive. I’m excited and nervous. We’ll be talking about my books By Light Betrayed – Poetry of the Vampires and Midnight Assassin: A Tale of Lust and Revenge.

Bring your wine and popcorn and a friend! And let me know what you think, ok?

Wish me Good Luck!

Yours Between the Lines,
Sherry

 

****The following items will always appear to keep you posted on activities.*****

WIP (Works in Progress): 
– first novel in the Evening Bower series, about vampires and other supernatural creatures
– fictional memoir
– four-part fairy story (part one complete)

On the Desk: (next reading): Some Like It Witchy (#5) by Heather Blake

Off the Desk (book just finished): The Goodbye Witch (#4) by Heather Blake

Coming Soon:  What I love and hate about NaNoWriMo/More interviews/Holiday Chaos